daddyiwantthis: So I took a break from diapers for a few days…


So I took a break from diapers for a few days but I’m back in action in my @onesiesdownunder outfit!

Normally Daddy diapers me every night but I temporarily lost the desire for them.

I’m sure you’re familiar with the binge and purge that comes along with AB/DL. It’s pretty common.

This time was different from when I was single.

When I was single the purging came from a place of shame. I felt so disgusted with myself that I cancelled my membership to, threw out my Paci’s and little stuff.

This break wasn’t the same because I didn’t feel any shame or disgust. I simply got a little tired of it.

It’s like when you eat your favorite food every single and then you get a little bored of it and take a break.

Whether we are talking about diapers or food, I think it’s healthy to take a break from things that we love.

What’s not healthy is beating yourself up about things you have zero control over. Anything can be sexualized- even a guitar or cars. We just so happen to like diapers.

I’m here to tell you that the guilt you feel is misplaced.

Being little can be a wonderful thing so stop judging yourself. Give yourself permission to deal with stress in the best way you know how.

Act a little silly!
Giggle your heart out
Put on that diaper
Suck on that paci

If you get bored, realize that’s normal! Take a break until you’re ready to go back into that headspace.

Take care of yourself ?

– Lo <3

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